We put a lot of pressure on our romantic relationships by expecting one person to be everything to us. There are many loves in one’s life, not just one perfect, great love So my point being, ek kursi choose karne se pehle, agar hum itni saari kursiyan dekhte hain, toh ek life partner choose karne se pehle, humein options nahi dekhne chahiye kya?” 4. So the process starts, kursi after kursi after kursi-how many kursis we check out before we find that one kursi. Others look nice, but are hard on the bum. And yeah, some kursis are comfortable but look like shit. “ Kya tumne kursi khareedi hai? Kya tumne dukaan mein jaate hi pehli kursi pasand kar li aur khareed li? Ek kursi khareedne se pehle, hum kitni saari kursiyan dekhte hain, kitni saari kursiyan try karte hain.
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Here’s how Dr Jehangir explains that it is nothing but trial and error: If we don’t experience relationships with different people, how will we even know what kind of a partner makes us happy? We often beat ourselves up after a relationship ends, thinking, “Why can’t I find the right person? Why must I go through so many failed relationships? Why isn’t it working out with this one partner I thought I would end up with?” Fact is, we need to kiss a few frogs before finding our prince or princess. Trial and error in love is necessary to find the right one As Jehangir says, “Albert Einstein ne kaha tha pagal who hota hai jo roz-roz same kaam karta hai, magar chahta hai ki nateeja alag ho.” 3. It represents how, when we are low and unhappy with life, we need to switch up what we are doing in order to end a situation that isn’t serving us well. That’s why it’s important to remember that scene from Dear Zindagi when Kaira and Dr Jehangir go cycling for a change, just because it’s important to break the monotony. The lack of a positive change of scenery affected us all. So, we woke up every day and did the same thing in the same room, day after day. We have all been stuck in a rut because many of the things we used to do for fun were not an option in the past two years. Jaise dimaag humari body ka hissa hi nahi hai.” 2. Lekin agar dimaag ki problem ho, toh saari ki saari family ekdum silent. Mujhe kidney failure hai, ya lung infection, jaundice. You know, jo ki sabko bata sakte hain: ‘Hey guys, I’m in the hospital. Shah Rukh’s line from the film sums it up best: “ Yahaan par abhi bhi, still, log ye samajhte hain ki dimaag ki problem hona bohot sharm ki baat hai. So it’s important to remember that our mind’s health matters. Our brain is the most important organ of our body, without which nothing else can work. But just because something is in our heads, doesn’t mean it’s not real. We tell ourselves that it’s just in our head and it doesn’t matter. The past two years have been so stressful, with our health, economic stability, and the safety of our loved ones at risk, that we have not been able to think of our mental health. Don’t forget that your brain needs as much TLC as every other organ in your body
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The best film to rewatch when you feel lost and low, it is full of things to remember in order to preserve one’s sanity and take care of one’s mental health.Īs the movie completes five years, here’s revisiting these lessons, especially given how many of us have had to grapple with a lot of sorrow in the past two years. Dear Zindagi was a goldmine of a film when it comes to life advice.